Book Review: My Bison by Gaya Wisniewski (2020)

Tuesday, March 10th, 2020

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five out of five stars

(Full disclosure: I received a free e-ARC for review through NetGalley.)

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Book Review: The Psychology of Time Travel by Kate Mascarenhas (2019)

Friday, April 26th, 2019

A haunting contemplation on love, death, and destiny.

five out of five stars

(Full disclosure: I received a free e-ARC for review through Edelweiss. Trigger warning for allusions to rape and mental health issues.)

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Two women, who’d already witnessed each other’s deaths, married on the first day of spring. […]

Entertainments followed: fifty-five Angharads danced a ballet.

It’s 1967 and time travel is about to become a reality – thanks to four brilliant young women telefon symbol herunterladen.

The laboratory, in Cumbria, was home to four young scientists. Margaret was a baroness turned cosmologist. Lucille had come from the Toxteth slums to make radio waves travel faster than light. Grace—who never gave the same account of her history twice—was an expert in the behavior of matter. And the last was Barbara: the baby of the group, hair so fair it was nearly white, ruddy-cheeked and naively wholesome. She specialized in nuclear fission.

Among other things, their invention will make it more difficult for society to deny them their accomplishments:

And because time travellers appear again and again as the years go by—long past their natural lifespan—it would be harder to write these women out of history macwelt el capitan. They would be visible, for all to see.

Yet, shortly after traveling forward an hour into the future (time travel being possible only between points in which the infrastructure exists which, for the purpose of this story, is between 1967 and 2267 … mysterious!), Barbara – Bee for short – suffers a breakdown on live TV and is promptly institutionalized. It’s later theorized that the disruptions in daylight triggered a bipolar episode in Bee, who was already predisposed. Nevertheless, Bee is ostracized from the burgeoning Time Travel Enclave, largely at funder Margaret’s behest.

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That is, until the day she finds an origami rabbit on her front step. Inside is in inquest notice, dated five months in the future, into the death of an unidentified woman in her 80s. Afraid that Bee will soon be murdered – multiple gunshot wounds, her body discovered in the locked basement boiler room of a toy museum by a volunteer – Ruby launches a covert investigation into the Conclave’s other three founders herunterladen. Meanwhile, Bee tries to get back into the Conclave’s good graces.

The Psychology of Time Travel jumps back and forth in time – from the invention of time travel in 1967; to last half of 2018, in the months leading up to the murder; to the crime’s fallout, in 2019 – and is told through multiple perspectives: Bee, Margaret, Grace, Lucille, and Ruby, naturally; Odette, the young graduate student who makes the gruesome discovery; Ginger, Ruby’s sometimes-lover; Angharad, an astronaut who joins the Conclave after Bee’s ousting; and Siobhan, a psychologist from the 22nd century. Every. Single. Narrator. is a woman, which is such a refreshing and surprising delight, I can’t even.

Sometimes stories told in this way can prove difficult to follow but, once I got used to the rhythm, I became lost in the tale. It’s a little bit mystery, a lot of geeky good science fiction, and – perhaps above all else – a surprisingly philosophical exploration of how time travel might affect us: the travelers specifically, and society more generally spiele mit geld kostenlos herunterladen. Mascarenhas’s vision might surprise you.

This is an exceptionally difficult book for me to review, but probably not for the reasons you might think. I read it while one of my beloved puppers – fifteen years young! – was dying…though I did not realize it at the time. She’d been struggling with dementia for about ten months, which was difficult to watch; but I thought we had at least a few more months together. Sadly, O-Ren was euthanized at home five days after I finished The Psychology of Time Travel: she was refusing to eat or drink, and her nighttime pacing became more frantic, even as her energy waned and she could no longer do laps around the house without falling, repeatedly amazon produktbilder herunterladen. Most likely she also had a brain tumor, like her friend Mags, who passed away just four months before – on Thanksgiving, no less. One of my final memories of Rennie will be pacing around the house with her while reading The Psychology of Time Travel on my Kindle. Needless to say, this review was written in tears.

Point being, it’s been a rough few years for me. In just under six years, I lost six dogs, a grandmother, and my husband. I had to sell my house and move back home. My last remaining doggo is thirteen-and-a-half and I’m waiting on a neurology consult to see if Finnick might have a brain tumor as well bluetooth treiber kostenlos herunterladen. I don’t know what I’m going to do when he leaves me, too. Some days these dogs are the only thing that keeps me going. In this context, I found The Psychology of Time Travel’s meditations on death especially appealing.

This book is called The PSYCHOLOGY of Time Travel for a reason: turns out that time travel can really fuck a person up.

When you’re a time traveler, the people you love die, and you carry on seeing them, so their death stops making a difference to you. The only death that will ever change things is your own.

This idea is both amazing and terrifying. To think that your loved one will forever exist during a certain period in time, even if they do not exist at this particular moment, and that you can visit them at the drop of a hat, is…wonderful herunterladen. Magnificent. Liberating. I would give anything to be able to do that. To bump crooked noses with Peedee, or smell Ralphie’s musk, or rub Kaylee’s piggy belly. To talk to Shane or go on a hike with Mags. To once again toss a tennis ball around with little puppy Rennie.

Yet, as we soon learn, this mutability of death is a double-edged sword. Time travelers become cruel. Hardened. Some of this is in the management, sure, but even the “good” ones struggle with doing what’s right – why not, when you can put that weight on your silver self’s shoulders herunterladen?

The Psychology of Time Travel is a thoughtful contemplation on love, loss, and – yes – destiny. Another pitfall of already knowing the future? Subjugating your will in order to choose the path that you think your life is “supposed” to take: seeing the future makes it so. But who’s to say the future cannot be changed?

So, yes, time travel is a magical experience – but took much knowledge can become a prison of its own.

The time travel also lends itself well to all sorts of neat little details, from the slang (“For instance—intercourse with one’s future self was called forecasting. Intercourse with one’s past self was a legacy fuck.”) to the scenes featuring multiple versions of the same character (see also: slang). You never know just when or how some characters’ lives will intersect, and the guessing makes for a really enjoyable experience.

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Book Review: History Is All You Left Me, Adam Silvera (2017)

Monday, January 16th, 2017

“history is how we get to keep him.”

four out of five stars

(Full disclosure: I received a free electronic ARC for review through Edelweiss.)

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Book Review: My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry, Fredrik Backman (2015)

Friday, June 26th, 2015

For Children Aged Zero to One Hundred and Twenty-Three

five out of five stars

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Book Review: The Milestone Tapes, Ashley Mackler-Paternostro (2012)

Friday, May 30th, 2014

The Long Goodbye

three out of five stars

(Full disclosure: I received a free electronic copy of this book for review through Library Thing’s Member Giveaways program.)

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You want a physicist to speak at your funeral.

Saturday, June 23rd, 2012

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– Aaron Freeman, “You want a physicist to speak at your funeral.” (via NPR)

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Goodbye, but not forever.

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

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She took out the golden instrument. The answer came at once. She put it away and stood up.

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“So I urge you: come with the child out to the sky!”

But her ghost was thrust aside by the ghost of a man who looked like a monk: thin and pale, with dark, zealous eyes even in his death. He crossed himself and murmured a prayer, and then he said:

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Lyra felt bewildered. Was she wrong? Was she making some great mistake? She looked around: gloom and desolation on every side. But she’d been wrong before about the appearance of things, trusting Mrs. Coulter because of her beautiful smile and her sweet-scented glamour. It was so easy to get things wrong; and without her daemon to guide her, maybe she was wrong about this, too.

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She nodded. She had to trust her body and the truth of what her senses told her; she knew Pan would have.

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The night air filled their lungs, fresh and clean and cool; their eyes took in a canopy of dazzling stars, and the shine of water somewhere below, and here and there groves of great trees, as high as castles, dotting the wide savanna.

Will enlarged the window as wide as he could, moving across the grass to left and right, making it big enough for six, seven, eight to walk through abreast, out of the land of the dead.

The first ghosts trembled with hope, and their excitement passed back like a ripple over the long line behind them, young children and aged parents alike looking up and ahead with delight and wonder as the first stars they had seen for centuries shone through into their poor starved eyes.

The first ghost to leave the world of the dead was Roger. He took a step forward, and turned to look back at Lyra, and laughed in surprise as he found himself turning into the night, the starlight, the air…and then he was gone, leaving behind such a vivid little burst of happiness that Will was reminded of the bubbles in a glass of champagne.

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Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

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Book Review: Death to Dust: What Happens to Dead Bodies?, Kenneth V. Iserson (2001)

Monday, July 25th, 2005

An Encyclopedic Overview of Death & Dying

five out of five stars

Of the many books on death and dying that I’ve read over the past six months, Kenneth Iserson’s “Death to Dust” is by far the most comprehensive and enjoyable of the bunch smart notebook herunterladen. Weighing in at over 800 pages, “Death to Dust” is truly an encyclopedic approach to the subject.

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For the macabre among us, if you buy just one book on death and dying this year, look no further – “Death to Dust” is it! Those looking to arrange for their own post-mortem plans might find the book helpful as well, although there are consumer guides designed specifically for advising individuals of wills, advance directives, organ donation, and corpse disposal (“Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act of Love,” by Lisa Carlson, is an excellent place to start). I’m not sure I’d recommend “Death to Dust” to the newly bereaved, however; some of the subject matter might prove a bit upsetting. On the upside, it’s easy to skip over these sections altogether, as the book is very organized.

My only gripe: Iserson included WAY too many quotes from the self-proclaimed “poet-mortician,” Thomas Lynch – who, I have determined, is a gawd-awful poet with an exaggerated view of his own self-importance. I literally cringed every time Iserson included excerpts of his amateurish prose – it’s just that painful.

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Book Review: Corpses, Coffins, and Crypts: A History of Burial, Penny Colman (1997)

Saturday, June 4th, 2005

Suitable for young adults & casual readers

three out of five stars

In “Corpses, Coffins and Crypts: A History of Burial,” author Penny Colman offers a brief overview of death, dying, and related customs and rituals throughout time and across cultures alte filme legal downloaden. Intended for a younger audience (grades 9 through 12), the book is a relatively superficial examination of an incredibly complex topic.

Although the book’s title stresses burial customs, “Corpses, Coffins and Crypts” includes discussions of a number of disposal methods, such as burial (in cemeteries, tombs, catacombs, and mausoleums), cremation (with either burial or scattering), exposure, and cryopreservation txt herunterladen. More morbid practices, like cannibalism, are largely omitted. The most emphasis is placed on burial in cemeteries, and Colman includes a number of black-and-white photos to supplement the text; most are of famous or historic cemeteries and graves filme bei netflix herunterladen laptop.

Throughout the book, Colman maintains a lighthearted and humorous tone, perhaps to set apprehensive readers at ease with the taboo material. For instance, she incorporates a picture of Archie Arnold’s grave into the book herunterladen. Arnold, a prankster in life, arranged to have his tomb flanked on either side by antique parking meters, with their dials set to “expired.” Colman also interweaves a number of personal anecdotes and narratives into the text, giving her discussion a conversational, friendly feel herunterladen. While some readers might appreciate the tone, I found it a bit informal for my tastes.

“Corpses, Coffins and Crypts” is probably most suitable for teenagers, as well as adult audiences who want a brief, casual read on the subject spiele apps herunterladen. For those looking for a more scholarly and in-depth look at death and dying, I highly recommend Kenneth Iserson’s encyclopedic Death to Dust: What Happens to Dead Bodies gif handy? (from which Colman quoted heavily). At over 800 pages, Iserson truly does cover all the bases!

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Book Review: When We Die : The Science, Culture, and Rituals of Death, Cedric A. Mims (2000)

Wednesday, June 1st, 2005

An interesting – yet imperfect – overview of death & dying

three out of five stars

In “When We Die,” Biology Professor Cedric Mims provides a succinct overview of all things macabre grüffelo film herunterladen. He touches upon standard death and dying subjects such as embalming, burial, cremation, organ donation, and bereavement, as well as more unusual topics, including cannibalism, cellular suicide, mummification, compostoriums, acid baths, and necrophilia ps4 demoen. No stone is left unturned in his discussion of death, dying, and “the science, culture, and rituals of death.”

As much as I enjoyed “When We Die,” it was not without its flaws herunterladen. For starters, it doesn’t seem as though the book was properly edited. I wouldn’t go as far to say that Mims is a BAD writer, but it could have been better playstation 3 spiele download kostenlos vollversion. His misuse of commas, for instance, is atrocious. He also tends to have trouble transitioning between topics. Some of the awkwardness probably stems from the fact that Mims lives in England and spent some time in Australia and Africa firefox downloaden — gratis webbrowser. His phraseology can be clumsy and cumbersome, and I’m willing to bet that it’s due to cultural differences. The book was initially released in the UK, and it doesn’t appear to have been modified for its US edition lieder aus youtubeen legal. Spelling and word usage differences remain intact, when his editor really should have changed them in the US version to reflect his new audience.

Additionally, I found some of his statements to be questionable, while other claims were just plain incorrect videos von facebooken online. For example, he says that $6 million, “spent over 10 years,” is enough to clean all the water in “third world countries” and eliminate deaths due to diarrhea (that estimate seems awfully low, no?) radio psr app herunterladen. He also refers to the 1978 Jonestown massacre as a “mass suicide” (despite overwhelming evidence that many members were murdered outright), and makes the dubious claim that, “in all cases [of sensational homicides] the murderer is mentally deranged.” Taken together, these errors made me question the rest of the information Mims included in “When We Die.” Though he does list 4+ pages of references, he does not use footnotes in his text – so it’s usually impossible to tell what information he pulled from which sources starcraft kostenlos downloaden.

Nonetheless, “When We Die” is a fascinating and largely enjoyable read. Serious scholars may want to pass this one by, but it’s an interesting and manageable discussion for laypeople vmware rechnung herunterladen.

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Book Review: The American Way of Death Revisited, Jessica Mitford (1998)

Tuesday, May 10th, 2005

Surely the dead must be rolling in their proverbial graves!

five out of five stars

In “The American Way of Death Revisited,” journalist and muckracker Jessica Mitford presents a searing exposé of the “death-care” industries, particularly funeral homes/directors and cemeteries rollercoaster tycoon 4 download for free. She potently argues that many death-care workers, rather than looking out for their customers’ best interests, are more concerned about their bottom lines; that the FTC has failed to curb manipulative and downright illegal sales techniques engaged in by these businesses; that many of our assumptions about funerary practices are wrong; and that consumers should actively take part in honoring their dearly departed, rather than turning the task (and thousands of dollars) over to McMortuaries.

With the help of undercover investigations, disgruntled death-care workers, and grieving families who fell prey to unscrupulous death-care workers, Ms herunterladen. Mitford details the manipulative, deceitful, and sometimes illegal tactics that death-care workers use to trump their competitors in an increasingly oversaturated market. We’re even treated to shocking statements right from the horses’ mouths: the authors offers a multitude of quotes pulled straight from the trade journals, such as “The Director,” “Mortuary Management,” “Casket & Sunnyside,” and (my personal favorite) “American Professional Embalmer.”

In “The American Way of Death Revisited,” we learn the following:

* Although funeral directors would like you to believe otherwise, embalming is neither required by state law nor essential to public health kann ich musik von spotify herunterladen.

* Again contrary to the fibs of the “funeral men” (as Ms. Mitford ominously refers to them), citizens are free to scatter “cremains” wherever they so choose (the state of California is the lone exception) – it is not necessary to bury them, store them in a pricey urn, or pay someone to scatter them. Nor is it required that your loved one be cremated in a casket – a cardboard or pine box or shroud does just as well.

* The purchase of “pre-need” plans usually serve as in invitation for the old “bait-and-switch” trick; by the time you pass away, the casket you initially paid for is no longer available herunterladen. Thus, your grieving relatives are forced to choose between a free yet inferior substitute – or an “upgrade” for a fee.

* Open casket funerals are a rather new invention, and are unique to the United States. Although funeral directors assert that a public viewing (of an embalmed corpse, of course) is necessary for healing in the survivors, they cannot produce one documented, scientific study to support this claim diätpläne kostenlos downloaden. Nor are they licensed psychologists; strangely, this does not prevent them from charging customers for “grief counseling.”

* As in many other industries, the ownership of funeral homes and cemeteries is becoming concentrated in the hands of a few massive McMonopolies. In some areas of the country, as many as 70% of the funeral homes may be owned by one company (talk about price fixing!). Even more infuriating are the companies’ attempts to conceal ownership from consumers; they would much rather have you believe that you’re purchasing a plan from kindly old “Uncle” Jack, who handled your grandmother’s funeral arrangements so many years ago herunterladen.

Of course, these are but a few of the insidious practices engaged in by the “funeral men.” The author manages to fill a full 274 pages with the others.

Ms. Mitford also explains where the Federal Trade Commission was (and has been) while millions of Americans were (are) being ripped off during their time of utmost vulnerability ls14 kostenlos downloaden. The answer certainly won’t give you much faith in the current state of our government (unless you share Mark Twain’s sentiments: “I think I can say, and say with pride, that we have legislatures that bring higher prices than any in the world.”).

“The American Way of Death Revisited” is actually a revised and updated version of 1963’s “The American Way of Death.” While Ms tabellenprogramme kostenlos downloaden. Mitford does offer some new information and insight, including more on the FTC and the development of McMortuaries, much of the information is dated. For example, many of the price quotes are still in 1960s currency. For this reason alone, I’d give the book 4.5 stars rather than 5.

Nonetheless, “The American Way of Death Revisited” is an impressive and shocking piece of work moorhuhn 2 kostenlos downloaden chip. It’s interesting to note how the “American Way of Death” is a relative recent phenomenon, and not a longstanding tradition, as those in the industry would have you believe. England is proud to boast that they’re 50 years behind us in their funerary practices; let’s hope that, through collective action, we can regress even further back than 50 years, to the days of simple pine coffins and home viewings herunterladen.

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Book Review: Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act of Love, Lisa Carlson (1997)

Tuesday, May 10th, 2005

Care for the Dead…and Their Hard-Earned Savings tvthek filmen!

five out of five stars

In “Caring for the Dead,” Lisa Carlson provides both an informative guide to DIY funerals and cremations, as well as a searing exposé of the funeral and cemetery industries voicemail herunterladen.

Carlson divides her book into three sections: “Personal Stories” is a 40-page introduction to the text in which different individuals (including Carlson) discuss their experiences with death and the subsequent disposal of the dead; “General Information” consists of 14 chapters and explains both “traditional” and non-traditional funerals, as well as cremation and body and organ donation; finally, “Caring for the Dead” details the relevant laws and regulations of all 50 US states mit welcher app kann man kostenlos musik downloaden.

It was the “General Information” section that I found most captivating. I’ve never had to arrange a funeral (and hopefully I won’t need to for some time yet!), so I was woefully unaware of what actually takes place during the course of planning and implementing one puzzle zum herunterladen kostenlos. Carlson demonstrates how greed and callousness have pervaded the funeral and burial industries, causing prices to skyrocket while sales tactics plummet to new levels of depravity lego friends spiele kostenlos herunterladen.

Through manipulative techniques and downright lies, funeral directors convince John Q. Public that embalming is both required by law and essential for public safety (in reality, it is neither, and the chemicals used are actually toxic to the environment), while cemeteries strong-arm consumers into paying maximum price for a minimum amount of real estate, all the while demanding that any upgrades be purchased, installed, and maintained solely by them (for a hefty fee, of course!) movie maker herunterladen chip. Even cremations don’t come cheap, as crematories guilt-trip survivors into buying expensive caskets (which will simply be destroyed within days) and cemeteries deceive them into buying niches in which to “bury” the cremains schneller downloaden steam.

While this is all quite appalling, it hardly comes as a surprise; after all, it’s just another example of capitalism at its worst. Harder to comprehend is how funeral homes and cemeteries are allowed to get away with this sort of crap outlook email downloaden! Well, again, I guess I shouldn’t be shocked – we are talking about the FTC here. Like many savvy businesses, funeral homes and cemeteries simply band together in the form of associations, which then employ lobbyists, apply a modicum of political pressure, and top it all off with campaign contributions, and – presto netflix movies does not work! – the FTC at your command!

End of political rant, back to the book review!

In essence, the “General Information” section serves as an excellent consumer guide, informing you of your rights, detailing the immoral and sometimes illegal sales tactics you’re likely to encounter, and teaching you how to come out victorious over those who wish to separate you from YOUR money and rob you of the valuable opportunity to care for YOUR dead, YOUR way samsung a5 images. The final chapters on state-by-state laws offer an excellent supplement to the general information.

I highly recommend “Caring for the Dead” to EVERYONE, whether you anticipate planning a funeral in the near future or not. Many Americans are duped into buying funeral and burial services that they neither need nor want. Chances are that, sooner or later, we’ll all be responsible for “caring for the dead,” or will know someone who is. As consumers (it sounds rather crass, but `tis true!), we must arm ourselves with information so that we aren’t caught off-guard when a death does occur. After all, we shouldn’t expect those involved in the funeral business to look after our bests interests; the bottom line is that they’re businesspeople who are concerned about their bottom lines! Educate yourself, and share your knowledge with your friends, your family, and anyone you know who’s in the unfortunate position of having to arrange a funeral or cremation.

Another excellent book that deals with this subject is “The American Way of Death Revisited,” by Jessica Mitford (to which Lisa Carlson contributed). Ms. Mitford deals with the subject in more of a muck-raking journalistic manner (as opposed to a consumer guide, as is “Caring for the Dead”), but it’s a highly informative analysis of the “American death” nonetheless. After developing a sense of the funeral industry’s antics in “Caring for the Dead,” you’ll appreciate Mitford’s dry wit and humor in “The American Way of Death Revisited.”

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